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ROBERT DIED OF COMPLICATIONS OF TRANSVERSE MYELITIS. THE LESION THAT CAUSED THE T.M. TURNED INTO A VERY AGGRESIVE CANCER THAT SPREAD QUICKY TO THE BRAIN..THE WHOLE THING WAS JUST A FEW SHORT WEEKS. HE THERFORE DONATED HIS BOBY FOR THE STUDY OF THIS PROBLEM. HE WAS WORRIED ABOUT HIS SISTERS CHILDREN GETTING THIS.....ROB AND CHERYL COULD NOT MAKE IT OFFICIAL,BUT AS FAR AS THE FAMILY IS CONCERN THEY WERE MARRIED...AND THEY WORE THEIR RING PROUDY. WHEN YOU FEEL BAD AND WISH BOB WAS STILL HERE....REMEMBER THAT HE WAS IN TERRIBLE PAIN.THE HEADACHES AND BACK AND NECK PAIN WAS UNBEARIBLE. HE HAD TO HAVE TUBES TO DRAIN. MANY TIMES OVER THE MONTHS SINCE HE GOT THE T.M. IN ARRIL. HE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL AT LEAST FIVE TIMES EACH LASTING THE AVERAGE OF SIX WEEKS OR MORE.... HE WAS A PARAPLEGIC FROM THE CHEST DOWN. THINK ..... BY THE TIME OF THE LAST MONTHS OF HE WANTED TO DIE..AT HOME...WHICH CHERYL REALLY TRIED..TO MAKE HIM HAPPY BUT GOD KNOWS BEST. SO WE NEVER GOT TO DO THAT,,BUT HE WAS IN A VERY DEEP SLEEP BECAUSE OF THE PAIN....I FINALLY DECIDED IT WAS TIME TO LET GO AND KEEP MY PROMISE ...SO WE JUST HAD PAIN,CONFORT, ALLOWED ONLY....THE NEXT WEEK WAS THE LONGEST,MOST AGONIZING TIME OF OUR LIVES. TO HONOR ROBERT WEV'E DECIDED INSTEAD OF FLOWERS WE WOULD SEND THE MONIES COLLECTED TO THE RESEARCH OF TRANSVERSE MYELITIS,AND CANCER. BECAUSE OF HIS LOVE OF ANIMALS AND HIS HATRED OF ABUSE OF THEM...SOME WOULD GO TO THE ASPCA ALSO HE LOVE TO CREATE AND BUILD THINGS ARROUND THE HOUSE AND I THINK HE WOULD HAVE TRIED TO A HABITAT FOR HUMANITY. SO IF THATS YOUR CHOICE....SO JUST LET US KNOW WHERE YOU WANT THE MONEY TO GO ...OR IF YOU DO IT YOUR SELF LETS US KNOW.......NOW A IMPORTANT ONE I FORGOT ABOUT ..... CHECKS CAN GO TO CHERYL OR US THERE ARE TWO MEMORIALS THUS FAR SCHEDUALED; ONE THE 31 OF MARCH ON 44291 RYAN IN MADISON HEIGHTS OR WAREN AREA THIS IS FOR THIS OLD SCHOOL FRIENDS. BUT ANYONE CAN COME ,,,CALL TAMMY 1 248941 1769....THE OTHER ONE IS MUCH LATER ..AND IS FOR ANYONE WHO WOULD LIKE TO COME...WE WILL HAVE A SERVICE AT TWO...THEN WE WILL EAT AND CELEBRATE BOBBYS LIFE |
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AS ROBERT GREW OLDER ,HE LIKE MOST OF US CHANGED..HIS ILLNESS REALLY CHANGED HIM....BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE WAS HE SAID HE WAS OK WITH THE LORD....ALTHOUGH HE GOT MAD AND UPSET ABOUT THE UNFAIRNESS OF IT ALL...TO BE HONEST SO DID I............BUT IF IT WAS GODS WILL THAT ROBS DEATH WILL HELP MANY MANY OTHERS SOMEDAY....LET US REMEMBER THAT...HE WANTED TO HELP OTHERS ,,SO FOR ME ANYWAY MY SON DIED A HERO. NOW IF I HAVE TO LEAVE YOU WITH ANYTHING IT IS..........IF ANYONE HAS NO SIN IN HIM...HE IS PERFECT THEN LET HIM THROW THE FIRST STONE AT ROB.....REMEMBER HE SAID HE WAS SORRY TO THE LORD ....HE MAY NOT HAVE HAD THE CHANCE TO SAY IT TO YOU....BUT IF THE LORD FORGAVE HIM ....SHOULD'NT YOU???????? |
